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The truth about FSBO negotiations
Most FSBO sellers think negotiations are about price.
They’re not.
They’re about risk.
A buyer can offer you your number, then bury you in weak terms, long deadlines, and repair demands, and your deal dies 3 weeks later after you’ve wasted time and stopped showing the home.
This chapter is your playbook to negotiate like a pro, even without an agent.
Rule 1: Stop looking at price first
Before you react, read the offer like this:
The 7 terms that matter most
- Purchase price
- Down payment
- Loan type (Conventional / FHA / VA / Cash)
- Earnest money deposit (EMD) and when it’s due
- Inspection contingency (how many days, what it covers)
- Appraisal contingency (any appraisal gap language?)
- Closing date + occupancy (when they close, when you move)
A slightly lower offer with clean terms is often better than a “full price” offer with weak terms.
Rule 2: Always verify the buyer before you negotiate
Before you counter anything, confirm the buyer is real and ready.
Ask for these 3 things (every time)
- Pre-approval letter with the property address and purchase price
- Proof of funds for down payment + closing costs
- Lender contact info so you can verify (a quick call can save you weeks)
If a buyer refuses to provide proof, that’s not a negotiation.
That’s a warning sign.
Rule 3: Use “Counter with Conditions” (this is the FSBO power move)
You don’t need to argue.
You need to tighten the offer.
Instead of only countering price, counter the terms:
Examples you can use
- “We’ll accept your price if the inspection period is 7 days.”
- “We’ll accept if seller credits are capped at $____.”
- “We’ll accept if you increase EMD to $____ within 48 hours.”
- “We’ll accept if you add an appraisal gap of $____.”
This keeps the buyer interested while protecting you.
Rule 4: Set deadlines or the deal drags forever
FSBO sellers lose leverage when they leave counters open.
Best practice
- Give counters a deadline: 24–48 hours
- Put it in writing: “Please confirm by ____ at ____”
If you don’t set the timeline, the buyer will.
Rule 5: Inspections are where most FSBO deals get shaken down
Inspections are normal.
But some buyers use inspections to “re-negotiate” the price after you’re committed.
Your inspection policy (simple + fair)
- You’re open to health, safety, and major systems
- You’re not paying for cosmetic upgrades
- You prefer credits over doing repairs yourself
Repairs that are usually reasonable
- Active leaks / roof issues
- Electrical hazards
- Plumbing issues
- HVAC not functioning
- Safety problems
- Structural concerns
Repairs that are usually not your job
- “We don’t like the paint”
- Minor wear and tear
- Old-but-working appliances
- Cosmetic requests
- Buyer “wish list” upgrades
Pro move: If you agree to anything, offer a credit.
Repairs can turn into a never-ending project.
Rule 8: Protect yourself from “friendly” language
Some offers sound nice but leave you exposed.
Be careful with:
- “We’ll decide title/attorney later”
- “We’ll get pre-approved soon”
- “We need an extra-long inspection”
- “We need 60–90 days to close”
- “We need you to pay all costs”
You’re not being difficult by tightening terms.
You’re being smart.